Nigerian TV show host, Bukunmi Adeaga-Ilorin in a recent post on her Instagram shows that that she is in the league of people who hold the stance that being married or having children doesn’t mean you’ve made achievement.
Bukunmi advised her followers to focus on themselves and not see marriage and childbearing as achievement.
She also said people should not use other people’s marriage as a standard to measure their performance in the field
“Being married is not an achievement! Having children is not an achievement either!
These things are blessings! Only given by God! It has nothing to do with how intelligent, famous or successful you’re!
And for these reasons you can’t make other people’s marriage or children your own standard or yardstick to measure your performance in these fields or your overall success in life.
Nobody’s marriage is a goals! I repeat, NOBODY’S MARRIAGE Is a goals!! God is the one scoring your own goals!
FOCUS ON YOU!!!!
